Is He Serious About You?
By Nicole Gayle
There comes a time when you have to take your love life seriously and I am really worried about the amount of women who don’t. Do you think a man is going to want a woman who goes into a panic attack when he doesn’t call? Do you really think it looks good if you are obsessive compulsive about running to your cell phone because you’re hoping he’ll call you back?
You’re not getting the proper results because you don’t want to work hard. You may claim that you want a man but you have to have what it takes to get a man to commit to you. No man will be serious about you until you take yourself seriously. It’s not just going to happen because you know how to dress well or how to flirt. It happens when you know how to get inside a man’s mind and stay there until he is thinking about you every moment.
If you’re not able to do this, it means you have a poor self image. You don’t think well of YOU. You are comparing yourself to the next miss thing or sitting down in quite desperation because you’re hoping a man will want you. You don’t even understand how great you are. You haven’t taken the time to find out.
The women who don’t take themselves seriously will have men eat them for left overs. They are the kinds guys call last minute because they know these women play hopscotch. They will hop for a man or pretend they are hard to get until their will get tested. Let a man wait to call back and you’ll see how “in control” some of these women are.
You should have enough pain and hurt from relationships to learn how to do it properly. When you are unwilling to learn you are signing up for more pain and confusion. When you are ready to do it right, you buckle up and you may have to put men on hold for a while instead of being a serial dater because you can’t do without a man’s attention.
If you’re in a relationship and you want more from it, you need to stop being what you are because this sort of being is under functioning. It’s not giving you what you want. Grow into a different self and you will see results like you never dreamed.